Ephesians 4:1-6
I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called,2 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, 3 eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. 4 There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call— 5 one Lord, one faith, one baptism, 6 one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.

My sister would have been 57 today. I would have sent her a card and given her a phone call; maybe sent some flowers or fruit. She died last December and it’s still hard to believe. But she is with Jesus now, and we miss her patient, gentle, humble spirit. These words from St. Paul are part of my current daily meditation; I let them form my blog posts. I don’t tend to look for texts to illustrate a point I want to make, but let the text shape my posts most often. Not today however. Since this would have been Barbara’s birthday, I’m doing this a bit differently.
When she was in high school Barbara went to a youth event at church. It impacted her greatly and she felt compelled to be re-baptized. She said she didn’t really understand it fully the first time. While I don’t think that necessary or advisable, (“I believe in one baptism for the remission of sins,” says the Nicene Creed, see v. 5), her desire was to be close to God. And though she and we all wait for the fullness of that experience at the great Last Day (“the one hope that belongs to [our] call” {v. 4}) her experience right now is surely with Jesus in Paradise.
I’m not writing this today in search for sympathy, even though her death hit me harder than I might have imagined. I write this today to honor her memory, to thank God for her gentleness, patience, humility and love. Perhaps her memory will point someone toward Jesus so that he or she will take more seriously what it means to walk in a manner worthy of our calling in Christ Jesus. None of us does that perfectly; not even Barbara. But exceptions in her case – and hopefully in yours and mine – prove the rule; they don’t nullify it. I thank God for her manner of life thanking God for the memory of Barbara Lynne Bahn Lohrmann (February 24, 1955 – December 5, 2011)
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