David Bahn – Reflections

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The Friendship Factor is a book by Alan Loy McGinnis. The tag expresses its theme: “At the heart of each relationship is the friendship factor–the essential ingredient of warmth and caring.”

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John 15:12-17

“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. 14You are my friends if you do what I command you. 15 No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you. 16You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you. 17These things I command you, so that you will love one another.

Jesus talks about friendship in these verses, saying that we are his friends by his sacrificial death (v.1 3). He says that our friendship should mean something: that we should obey his commands, chiefly shown by our love for one another (v. 17).

We are to go and bear fruit and pray in Jesus’ name as a means by which we show our love for one another. Paul says it this way:

1 Corinthians 13:1-3

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.

If we fail to love one another we fail to live out our friendship with Jesus. If we fail to love one another we fail to live out the purpose of Jesus’ commands. Warmth and caring toward others must mark Jesus’ followers. This friendship factor flows from Jesus’ friendship to us and from us to others.


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