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These devotions are part of the Follow the Word Bible reading program at St. John Lutheran Church in Cypress, Texas.This year we are reading through the Scriptures together, listening for how God speaks through his Word day by day. I hope you will join me on this journey.
Today’s readings are Genesis 31-33; Psalm 35.
Genesis 32:22-31
The same night he arose and took his two wives, his two female servants, and his eleven children, and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. 23 He took them and sent them across the stream, and everything else that he had. 24 And Jacob was left alone. And a man wrestled with him until the breaking of the day. 25 When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he touched his hip socket, and Jacob’s hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. 26 Then he said, “Let me go, for the day has broken.” But Jacob said, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” 27 And he said to him, “What is your name?” And he said, “Jacob.” 28 Then he said, “Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, for you have striven with God and with men, and have prevailed.” 29 Then Jacob asked him, “Please tell me your name.” But he said, “Why is it that you ask my name?” And there he blessed him. 30 So Jacob called the name of the place Peniel, saying, “For I have seen God face to face, and yet my life has been delivered.” 31 The sun rose upon him as he passed Penuel, limping because of his hip.

Maybe you have wrestled with God in prayer. It might be as intense and urgent as Jacob here, before he crosses the Jabbok. More often my prayers are not as intense and urgent. But you have to admire Jacob’s relentless declaration, “I won’t let go of you until you bless me.” In fact prayer can too easily become proforma exercises that fail to capture the true urgency of our need for God’s blessing.
Not every prayer needs to be an angel wrestling match. We can surely go to God in humble faith. We don’t always have to have our prayer intensity turned up to 11. But I wonder whether we take for granted God’s invitation to prayer, or too quickly figure out how to make things work out on our own – and in so doing forfeit greater blessings.
This was a pivotal time in Jacob’s life. He was on his way back home and soon to meet his estranged brother. There had been bad blood between the two, and Jacob was returning as a very wealthy and successful man. Would Esau be resentful? Would he be greeted by an angry brother? Only God knew, and only God held Jacob’s future in his hand.
Jacob does not walk away from the Jabbok as a spiritual champion. He walks away wounded, renamed, and blessed. He does not defeat God. God defeats Jacob’s self-reliance and leaves him clinging to grace alone. And that is where this story finally points us – not to our grip on God, but to God’s grip on us.
The God who wrestled Jacob in the darkness would one day enter our darkness fully, not just for a night, but all the way to the cross. There, Jesus would not limp away. He would be wounded far more deeply than Jacob — pierced, crushed, and laid in a tomb. And yet through that suffering he secured the blessing Jacob longed for and could never earn: peace with God.
That changes how we hear Jacob’s words, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” For us, the blessing is no longer uncertain or withheld. In Christ, it has already been given. Prayer is not a struggle to wring something out of a reluctant God. It is the cry of those who know where blessing is found – in the wounded Savior who still bears the marks of his love for us.








