John 15:12-17
This is my commandment: Love each other in the same way I have loved you. 13 There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command. 15 I no longer call you slaves, because a master doesn’t confide in his slaves. Now you are my friends, since I have told you everything the Father told me. 16 You didn’t choose me. I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce lasting fruit, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name. 17 This is my command: Love each other.

Why this command: “Love one another”? Why does Jesus repeat it so many times? Don’t God’s people automatically have a kind disposition toward one another? Don’t we all seek the others’ good, and overlook offenses, and bear one another’s burdens? Why would Jesus stress this so?
Certainly we must conclude that this is an important command. It’s not peripheral, nor is it optional on our part. This is no trivial matter. Perhaps that should soak in for a minute or two: loving one another within the body of Christ is important, not trivial, urgent, not optional. Not only so, but love is not our natural disposition toward God or our neighbor. Our natural disposition is toward taking care of ourselves, figuring out our own ways, and making certain our nest is feathered. And that’s not a matter of put-on-you-own-oxygen-mask-bofore-you-try-to-help-others kind of self-care. Jesus is calling us away from a self-consumed, self-serving, self-righteous, and generally selfish way of life, to a life of love, mercy, kindness, and selflessness.
There are many things about which we Christians can get exercised. Immoral sexual lifestyles, illegal drug use, the breakdown of the family, the decay of our culture. In fact sometimes we are known more for what we’re against than who we’re for. But our greatest appeal and impact in the world will be made when we live in such a way that people comment about us (just as they did in the early church), “See how they love each other!” I, for one, would be happy for that tag.
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