Ephesians 4:1-6
I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called,2 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, 3 eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. 4 There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call— 5 one Lord, one faith, one baptism, 6 one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.

Unity is a gift of God, a prayer of Jesus (John 17:20-21), and a good and pleasant experience (Psalm 133). Here we are urged to be eager to maintain this precious gift of God.
So how do we do this? It is not a matter of simply all getting along – as though everyone simply lowers his or her convictions to the point of the lowest threshold of intolerance. It’s not a matter of stifling our convictions in a “we don’t talk about politics or religion” approach to personal relationships. It’s certainly not a matter of bullying everyone into a coerced and counterfeit acquiescence.
A mantra of Edwin Friedman (now deceased father of family systems) is “Define yourself. Stay connected.” Paul says it this way, “speaking the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15). The question now becomes: Are you eager, willing, and able to maintain this unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace? If we are to embrace the fullness of Christ’s goodness and grace we will certainly be eager and willing. By the power of the Spirit we are also able to do so.
That calls us to an attitude of gentleness, patience, and long-suffering love coupled with a high regard for this gift and a desire to manifest that which we have in Christ.
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